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We Are Special

Mon Aug 4, 2014, 4:00 PM



Hello Pups~ ^w^

hi~ im here to say something to everyone out there. it might not make a difference in ur life if u read this, but i just want to let u guys know.

We all have a time in our lives where we forget our reasons for living. We go through hardships and problems that leads us to think, "what's my reason for living? No one will even remember me. Im just one person. Will me being here even make a difference?" Thinking so, it leads to depression and sadness.

But its not true that we have no reason in living in this world. We are blinded by the negative stuff around us and fail to see the positive of what our lives mean.

You think your presence in this world doesn't make a difference? IT DOES. From the moment you were born, you made someone out there happy, it might not be your family, but somebody out there that is happy you are alive.

You think people dont care about you and see you as a problem? SO WHAT? It's your own life and u can make someone care about you if you really wanted to. Dont think no one cares and leave youself in the dark- all alone and empty inside. It's you who has to interact with other people in order to make someone care and love about you. No one will if u keep sulking about people not caring about you. 

And often times, we stop in our lives and think, "Why am I born in this world?"

You are born, because you had a purpose to be born. Everyone is special in their own way. Don't let people who are better than you, stop you from becoming a better person. 

and lastly, thoughts about suicide will never EVER be a solution. So never think u should or even consider to, because u ARE special and there are people out there who care about u. just take the first step and never be scared. dont ever forget that.




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knbr1 Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2014
thankyou
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OtakuPup Featured By Owner Aug 9, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
hahahah~ walang anuman babaeeee~!
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SP-Nova Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Ota....as a person who underwent those thoughts and that kind of mindset, every point you brought up hits home.  Also though (playing a big of devil's advocate), with those who DO have thoughts like that, being soft towards them also isn't an answer, because in order to lead to such thoughts, their perspective and worldviews on things are so ingrained into them that being soft on them is like grazing the surface.  You'd have to uproot that mindset out of them by force...ultimately, it IS their choice to live or die..but the best way to help them choose life as well is not just merely with words but also actions.  Have them do stuff, challenge them, etc.  Whatever it is you do, it has to be so intensive that it'll rip out their mindset and they themselves will starting willing themselves to live and find a reason to.  It's..really complicated to explain but easy to practice.  I got out of it..but it took a treatment that I didn't expect to get in order to "get better" lol

But yea, hope your message inspires those who read it.
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Cookieking2000 Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I once had thoughts like this too a some time ago but what kept me going as a person was the thought of how would my friends feel and that was what keeps me going in life lol
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xTanglestarx Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
:') you are right <3
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SarahUsagi-chan Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I can't put it into words....how inspirational this journal entry is. I am really glad that you wrote this. You may not know it but there is that someone who read this and realized that you are right. Words can save a person and you did a good job on making this inspirational journal entry. I was really moved. I am a pessimistic person and this text somehow boost my confidence. I am really thankful that out there, there is someone who wants others to feel that they are special. Taiga and Minori (I miss you hug) [V1] 
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AnaVH Featured By Owner Aug 5, 2014
I once had those thoughts... you know...
sometimes I look forward and are so excited about the future, but then everything suddenly loses hope, and I think I might just be a plague to everyone.
But hey, actually I've stopped myself because I don't want to see the ones I love cry, and that is mostly what has been keeping me positive together with my lovely friends, both irl and here on DA~~

I'm crying right now...

Thank you for writing this... I can see that it has helped lots of people~~
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GiggleChan Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
This made me cry..Thank you so much Otaku-Chan for reminding me and everyone why were all here. Oh..and good crying! I promise I wasn't sad crying..you just made me realize things and begin to feel hope that..We all are really something special aren't we <3 
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Chanz-diri Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Awwww~~~bbu ; A ;
Everybody around me is going through so many hardships it was breaking my heart :iconuhuhuhuplz: Even though my friends are far apart and even though we haven't seen or contacted each other for months/years, I'm glad I can be there whenever they need help.
Oh I'm ever so happy you spread the word~~!!Thank you for being with us bbu~~!!:iconsupertighthugplz:
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Lave-ndar Featured By Owner Aug 4, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
This ;;w;;
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